Category Archive: Family

Top 10 Picks for Best Motivational Books

Posted by on December 6, 2017

I've complied a list of my personal favorite motivational/self-help/psychology books. There is literally something for everyone on this list! Give them as a gift to yourself or someone else and start making positive changes and living the life you want to live TODAY! "10% Happier" by Dan Harris After having a nationally televised panic attack, Dan Harris knew he had to make some changes. A lifelong nonbeliever, he found himself on a bizarre adventure involving a disgraced pastor, a mysterious self-help guru, and a gaggle of brain scientists. Eventually, Harris realized that the source of his problems was the very thing he always thought was his greatest asset: the incessant,…

What did you do for your Marriage Today?

Posted by on July 2, 2017

I heard about this campaign a few years ago and it really stuck with me.  A group went out and interviewed couples on the street, asking them, "what did you do for your marriage today?"  As a relationship counselor I find this to be a very important question.  Couples come into marriage counseling with issues like communication problems, trust issues, intimacy problems, etc., but often the underlining issue is a lack of feeling loved.  I encourage people to show their partner love everyday. Here are 7 quick and easy ways to show your partner you love them: send a text saying you're looking forward to seeing them after work hug them when they walk in the door thank…

How Tina Fey’s “Rules of Improv” Apply to your Relationship

Posted by on June 16, 2017

While reading Tina Fey's book Bossypants something struck me.  In the book she talks about the Rules of Improv.  The first rule of improv is to AGREE.  In order for an improv scene to work, the actors must agree with each other.  Otherwise they're at a standstill.  For example, if one actor starts a scene by sitting in a pretend seat, steering a pretend steering wheel, and then says to the other actor, "where ya headed today?"  The other actor knows the scene of is taking place in a taxi cab.  The other actor needs to AGREE with the scene that's been set, and go with it.  If the other actor says, "What?  Where am I going? …

Slow Down

Posted by on December 24, 2015

"Life moves pretty fast.  If you don't stop and look around for a while, you could miss it."  Remember that line from Ferris Bueller's Day Off?  You've probably heard things like- life is short, enjoy the moment, don't work your life away, spend time with your family, kids grow up so fast, etc., etc.  But how do we really enjoy the moment and not let life pass us by?  I was walking through the mall yesterday, quickly trying to make some long overdue purchases and a return.  I actually had two hours to complete this, but I still found myself rushing though the mall, passing the slow walkers on the left,…